The new face of evil
Pretty much 'Evil' comes in all sizes and shapes- for me, it is in a 4'10" 105 pound person...yep- my "ex" !
Financially speaking, besides keeping my kids away from me as much as legally possible, all she can do is drain the fucking shit out of me at every turn. Now, so may be laughing at this, while others are relating to this in real life.
Having two children and an ex that is so hell-bent on revenge, is a hard turn to pass easily- let me give you an example of how she is financially-fucking me...
Besides hiring the sleaziest skum-bag lawyer, ( she can afford this with my monthly child support), the judge who is for the women-regardless of the situation, she is pulling in over 28% of my monthly income, plus getting half of medical bills for the kids, AND 28% of my Income Tax REFUND each year!!!
Talk about a evil bitch!!! My kids live 30 minutes away from where I live and she REFUSES to help with travel- and the judge didn't make her- only told ME that I would have to go to Mediation to work that out!!! Worthless skum-bag judge!!! But of course, mediation is $100 a session and if I bring her there to talk about getting more time, or help, it is all on ME!! so , fuck it- I can't keep going thru this hell...
What one thinks is fair, another see's opportunity to fuck them over. My ex is a cold hearted witch, that was NOT like this- but once we decided to get the divorce, her mother, and family and friends all told her what great opportunities and financial gain she can get by putting the screws to me...
Last time we went to court, I had some arrearage because of my last attorney ( a stoopid dumb c#nt) made a deal with the other attorney that I would agree to pay my ex 28% of my Income Tax Refund each year, but failed to inform me- or send me any court papers showing this...so 3 years later when I took her back to court to lower my support since my company changed hands, I made several thousands less.
I thought this would be a simple deal, but then was told by the other attorney that I was in contempt of court, and I owed $4100 !!! I was in total shock and rage! So, being the cum guzzling whore that she is, along with her skum bag "attorney", they came up with a figure of $6500, including Interest on that money! They said that I had to pay $1000 of her attorney fee's, make monthly payments of $100 to get caught up, or they will request that I do 30 days in jail! My ex just sat there and smiled as big as you can- and then her attorney said that I would probably really only spend 15 days in jail- then they both laughed!
It is hard to pay my bills, rent, food, and keep putting gas into my piece of shit car and not have the constant reminder that a short ugly GUET is behind all of this!!
(oh, btw, GUET stands for Greedy Ugly Evil Troll)
Each Wednesday I get to see them and every other weekend but I have to travel- unfair? you bet! but in this lovely skum bag political state I live in- it is par for the course!
These women know how to get a man, and get paid! I work at a place where there is a lot of women, and I hear all kinds of bullshit stories about how they took their man to court for more money, the games they play with the kids- and how the judges are on the side of the woman 99% of the time!
I know there are both men and women out there who can relate to my situation- I ask that you share your story and together we can fight back against the GUET's of the World!!!
Never too late to restart
Having an "ex" that is mean and nasty- greedy, and basically a "TROLL" is NO fun! Worse yet, having a Troll for an ex who tells you WHEN and WHERE you can see your kids, and a judge who GRANTS this request is so fuking horrible!!!
Thinking about leaving? There are certain steps you MUST DO FIRST!
What are they?
…(I'm so glad you asked!)
Its not enough to help others
Why can't a logical discussion take place when it comes to ex-spouses? I'm guessing that if I were to just comment on my ex refusing to make exceptions for things that there would be a backlash from the women that defend women and the men that defend women too.
I don't mind a man defending a woman. But anyone defending an ex- just isn't something that I can go along with, so let me tell you my position and you can comment with your thoughts on this situation.
Every other year my ex- or myself switch off the tax deduction that "head of household" can give when we alternatingly choose to list our child as "mine this year". The difference occurred when there was a chance for me to get a substantially more money back from taxes... I even offered to DOUBLE the money my ex was going to receive from her refund. Nope.
Why? Guessing its because I would get more money too. That's never acceptable. Never.
It only counts when it helps her and hinders me.
I wish I was sleeping it all off on a neighboring trunk:
Back with more pictures of more girls
The site hasn't been missing, it hasn't been gone, it's you that has been gone. It's your fault. It's always your fault. It doesn't matter if it has something to do with the site, your taxes, your child support, the social situation that your child or children are going through. Everything is your fault.
Why is it when you convert a current into an ex - that they lose their f*ing mind? I think that there is something dangerous about a human when trapped or afraid, as well as when the proposal of being alone is presented. That's what you are doing when you tell someone that you have no interest in being with them, you are telling someone else that they aren't what you want and that you are leaving them, though they might not be alone, you are leaving them, so you are leaving them without you, which is alone.
When a guy friend of mine left his wife (converting her into an ex), he learned the pain of reality. Same happened with a friend couple of mine, when she screwed his best friend the couple split (and the cheating guy's lip split later too).
How you split isn't as important as how quickly you get a replacement! Being alone isn't good for some people and being forced into being alone, well, that ends with bitch fights.
28 percent
As with having children, and divorce, there is always the unmistakable worry about Child-Support. How much will you have to pay? Well, it depends...
In Illinois:
One child: 20% of payor's net;
Two children: 25% of payor's net;
Three children: 32% of payor's net;
Four children: 40% of payor's net;
Five or more children: 50% of payor's net.
This has changed for Illinois- it is higher. For two children it is now 28% of payor's net!
Talk about a kick in the nuts!
I'm not at all opposed to paying for my children to have the things they need- but my children can't even DRIVE yet- and my ex has 3 vehicles!!!!! WTF!!
This is what I am talking about when I say make sure YOU can afford to live AFTER they deduct child support from you. Most guys who pay do not have much left over and live in sqwaller- or in a low income apartment that is not in the best of neghborhoods!
Going back to my first step - Get a good attorney who will make sure you are not eating tuna and Roman noodles for dinner every night! YOU need to be able to live, and survive- and to take care of your kids!!!
I've been on this divorce rollercoaster for several years, and it seems that MY ex is one of the WORST ones out there!! She is NOT nice - even after 4 years of separation!!
I hear many ex wifes let the fathers take their kids when they want to- but not mine! She is a control freak and money grubbin whore!
I'm struggling everyday, and doing the best I can- of course, I didn't do Step 1 of my Divorce recommendations: Get a GOOD attorney... Now I am paying for it...dearly!
For income tax purposes- see if you can work an agreement to let each of you claim the children every other year- if 2 children, each take one to claim- it won't hurt to try!
DNA is just a way to be safe
I was talking to a lady friend of mine who has 2 kids by 2 different men. She was never married to either of them, but gets child support from one of them.
She got to telling me that the child support is not enough, for bills, and food, etc...
I told her that since she is working, and gets 2 child support checks, she must be doing ok...
She then told me that she only gets child support for the one daughter- she is not sure of the other father- like who it is, etc... SO she told me that she is going back to court to try to make the FIRST father pay for BOTH of the two children!!!!
I said, Whow, wait a minute- that is not his kid, that is not fair... she replied that the father of the first THINKS that the second one is HIS also!!!!!!!
Guys, if you EVER doubt that the child id yours- do yourself a favor- go and have it tested. DNA testing will ease the worry and make things more clear. I'm sure you've heard of guys paying for a child for 18 years, and on his 18th birthday you find out his ISN'T yours!!!!!
Vodka
One day- in a land far far and away there lived a poor white guy. One day around 9 am he decided to start drinking Vodka. From 9 am to noon he drank and drank vodka. He became numb and was in the best of moods.
Then the phone rang- he was invited to a Superbowl party in which there were many bottles of Bud Light and began to drink. TO much of his surprise, he drank Bud Light until 9 pm !
The whole day he drank- finding that being "numb" really pays off!!
Viva Vodka!!!!
Speak the truth
Being nice to your ex has it's good points- when out in public, always "appear" that you are better than her. Don't stoop to her level by getting mean and nasty- let it roll off you...
When, in the presence of your children, discussing your ex, use caution- as they hear, see, and will REPEAT everything!! Plus it makes you look BETTER if they DON'T hear you bad-mouthing the other...
SO my 14 year old daughter come to me and tells me that her mother won't buy her shoes that last, jeans that fit, or glasses that she can see out of. She almost come across like it is MY job to provide these things for her at her MOTHER'S house. NOT the case. I promptly told her of the MASSIVE amonts of child support I pay EACH PAYDAY to her mother to provide them clothes, shoes, etc. I feel she should know this!
I don't feel it is right to hide this from my kids- so that they know that DAD is giving us money for things- but MOM is not getting us the things we need!
So now that my ex knows that the kids are aware of how much she is getting for them- it makes it a LOT tougher on her when she spends the child support money on her live-in boyfriend and not on the kids where the money was supposed to go!
Guys, TELL me if this sounds familiar? Most councelors will tell you to NOT talk about finances with your children- I say FUK THAT! The kids NEED to know that DAD IS providing for them- the best he can- but MOMMY DEAREST is spending their money on crack and the boyfriend who mooches off of her!
Time to speak the truth to your kids- DON'T be afraid- tell the TRUTH- they will grow up and find out for themselves, and RESPECT you in the process!
Happy Valentine’s Day
Happy Valentine's Day!
I have the perfect gift for the ex's....
I bought my ex a new pair of slippers and a vibrator....
'cuz if she don't like the slippers, she can go FCUK herself!
Happy Valentine's day you CGW!
xoxo
me