My ex will think about something, it's rare, but she's capable of thought processing even if most of the thoughts are selfish or generally annoying.

Let me restart, less distraction this time.

My ex will think about something like "what school projects are due?" but instead of asking me, or asking my kid, she'll ask the ultimate person responsible for the answer, like a school teacher or administrator. Now because I'm not really looking forward to strange or annoying conversations, I'll ask the teacher or administrator the question, but since I try not to speak with my ex more than necessary she and I will never share our information or knowledge.

Now the admin or teacher or whomever will have the joy of dealing with me and the pain of dealing with her. That's two people asking, probing, interrogating, or just doing what would be considered too much for one family to do. But that one family is segmented now. And that one family is not one family, it's actually a representation of half of the families in a classroom, so instead of having one person from every family, there are multiple and the communication might suck.

Get used to it. It will happen and get worse.

The longer that I've been apart from my ex wife the longer the time between her and I conversing, also the longer between subtle or calm conversations.

It could be helpful to have a full-time mediator. It would save me from having to speak with someone that sounds a little mentally slower than ... well, no time for name calling.

Neither of us is to blame, because it's her fault.

Have a awesome ass to look at, it's way way better than anything my ex wife has had or will have.

Relationships change.

The reason your folks got along so well is that they were forced together, it was a different time. Two generations ago the people were together early because life expectancy was short and nothing personal to women but women were nearly trapped to stay with the moron they chose. These days, women have more power than men (equal treatment never existed unless it was 30 seconds of fleeting time). You can identify who has more power in a relationship, in the split of a relationship, just by witnessing the splitting.

If you think that you have a different situation, you have never really experienced the growing and breaking of a heart. Not trying to be hurtful, of course YOU have felt it, but the others reading this haven't.

So please educate me, what do you do when it comes to fighting and the feelings that get involved?

No ranting. No complaining. No agenda except maybe giving viewers more reasons to come back and maybe advertisers more reason to think about advertising while Google tries to make ad sense (yes, I know adsense is one word and should be capitalized also).

Share your beach party or other party pics, comment below.

That's quite a long list (good thing there's an attractive hottie to look at while checking out the massive list of side effects that Oxycodone or OxyContin). I didn't want to just share the side effects, I want to expand upon the list of side effects of Oxycontin.

Now if you want to research the medication, head over to Drugs.com or Wikipedia, but I want to discuss the more important parts of the medication.

- My ex started accusing me of doing things I have never done
- She accused my daughter of things that a 10-year old could never comprehend let alone perform against another person
- During a softball game my ex reacted so aggressively towards the coach that he asked in my private to either control my ex or remove my daughter from his team *

* she's a star player and the coach has been attempting to have her back on his team for 3 years, since the last time she was on his team
* no, my daughter isn't a star athlete, but she tries harder than every other kid on the team

There are more things my ex has done or problems she has caused, but that's not what this is about. No, this is about the kids (well, in this case just one kid - my kid - but this is for all of you fathers (and mother's too)). This is about controlling what you do around kids.

Don't ever let yourself go around your kid. It's a bad thing. Letting your kid see you at a low point in your life is a lifelong decision that only can be re-remembered with the help of medication or electricity, and medication could be what you don't want your kid to see.

So, don't do drugs. No bullshit, I mean when you are responsible for another human being, at any time. If you think that cannabis is a drug that you should avoid around your kids, avoid it. If you want to do oxy and you act like a retard, you too could be a big disappointment to your child.

Is there anything worse?

I'll end this with a picture, though you didn't really deserve it this time.

Though there have been a lot of instances where everything seemed normal, they are becoming further from common and closer to dream-state only.

My ex isn't just crazy, she's wacko nuts shit bird crazy. I mean, it's not just around me or because of me. Now I have coaches, teachers, a school administrator, and even other parents from my kid's related sports involved in telling me things like "your ex-wife is losing her mind" or "what's wrong with her?".

Here's my response....

I will post a couple pics of women that are not my ex, because I care about you all more than to just leave a post with so little love. It's just hard.

Mr. Majors, I know it's bad for me and for my best friend and I know it's terrible for you too.

Men, can we help each other out?

Having two children and an ex that is so hell-bent on revenge, is a hard turn to pass easily- let me give you an example of how she is financially-fucking me...

Besides hiring the sleaziest skum-bag lawyer, ( she can afford this with my monthly child support), the judge who is for the women-regardless of the situation, she is pulling in over 28% of my monthly income, plus getting half of medical bills for the kids, AND 28% of my Income Tax REFUND each year!!!

Talk about a evil bitch!!! My kids live 30 minutes away from where I live and she REFUSES to help with travel- and the judge didn't make her- only told ME that I would have to go to Mediation to work that out!!! Worthless skum-bag judge!!! But of course, mediation is $100 a session and if I bring her there to talk about getting more time, or help, it is all on ME!! so , fuck it- I can't keep going thru this hell...

What one thinks is fair, another see's opportunity to fuck them over. My ex is a cold hearted witch, that was NOT like this- but once we decided to get the divorce, her mother, and family and friends all told her what great opportunities and financial gain she can get by putting the screws to me...

Last time we went to court, I had some arrearage because of my last attorney ( a stoopid dumb c#nt) made a deal with the other attorney that I would agree to pay my ex 28% of my Income Tax Refund each year, but failed to inform me- or send me any court papers showing this...so 3 years later when I took her back to court to lower my support since my company changed hands, I made several thousands less.

I thought this would be a simple deal, but then was told by the other attorney that I was in contempt of court, and I owed $4100 !!! I was in total shock and rage! So, being the cum guzzling whore that she is, along with her skum bag "attorney", they came up with a figure of $6500, including Interest on that money! They said that I had to pay $1000 of her attorney fee's, make monthly payments of $100 to get caught up, or they will request that I do 30 days in jail! My ex just sat there and smiled as big as you can- and then her attorney said that I would probably really only spend 15 days in jail- then they both laughed!

It is hard to pay my bills, rent, food, and keep putting gas into my piece of shit car and not have the constant reminder that a short ugly GUET is behind all of this!!

(oh, btw, GUET stands for Greedy Ugly Evil Troll)

Each Wednesday I get to see them and every other weekend but I have to travel- unfair? you bet! but in this lovely skum bag political state I live in- it is par for the course!

These women know how to get a man, and get paid! I work at a place where there is a lot of women, and I hear all kinds of bullshit stories about how they took their man to court for more money, the games they play with the kids- and how the judges are on the side of the woman 99% of the time!

I know there are both men and women out there who can relate to my situation- I ask that you share your story and together we can fight back against the GUET's of the World!!!

Thinking about leaving? There are certain steps you MUST DO FIRST!

What are they?

…(I'm so glad you asked!)

I don't mind a man defending a woman. But anyone defending an ex- just isn't something that I can go along with, so let me tell you my position and you can comment with your thoughts on this situation.

Every other year my ex- or myself switch off the tax deduction that "head of household" can give when we alternatingly choose to list our child as "mine this year". The difference occurred when there was a chance for me to get a substantially more money back from taxes... I even offered to DOUBLE the money my ex was going to receive from her refund. Nope.

Why? Guessing its because I would get more money too. That's never acceptable. Never.

It only counts when it helps her and hinders me.

I wish I was sleeping it all off on a neighboring trunk: